parresa22.livejournal.comDoes it change your opinion of a name when you find out its popularity?
My daughter's name is Hailey, and when I chose it 4 years ago, I only knew of one other Hailey and that was from my childhood. It was pretty, and unique, and I thought it wouldn't be too common.
Fast forward, and it has crept up to #9 in the 1,000 most popular names in the US. I hate that! And I hate that there are so many different spellings. I thought I was choosing the most common, but apparently that is Haley, ugh.
When I had my second child, it was really important for his name not to be so common. We originally chose the name Milo, and told everyone early.
BIG mistake. All we heard was negative comments. "It sounds like a dog's name." "It reminds me of Milo and Otis, I can't take it seriously" "Thats not a real name, is it?"
We were so discouraged, we went to Leo- same reaction. "Thats just a nickname, what is the rest?"
So finally, we picked another name, secretly, and didn't reveal it until our baby was born. That way, no matter what, it was set. His name is Liam, and although I like it, it too seems to be rising in popularity.
And so it goes, with so many names!
I love, and have loved, the names- Emma, Emily, Isabelle, Isabella, Amelia, Grace, and Sarah, and yet will not use any for a girl because of how common they are. Likewise with Aiden, James, Max, Ben, and Sebastian. Just too many of them.
It worries me though, that no matter what name I pick and how quiet I am about it, that trends will take over and it will be everyone's name.
My solution, I think, is to go back to the 1950's and pick a name. Ya know, Mabel or Rose or Evangeline. Something people have heard before, but isn't everyone's brother.
What do you think?