still trying to figure out if he's joking.

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my fiance told me to make a pact with him.. that if we had a girl I could name her (in which I've already decided the name... Violet Isobel Simone) and that if we have a boy, he gets to name him. I'm scared, he likes bland names like Jonathon (!!! EEEK)

Is this fair? He's already said he liked the name I picked out.

edit: he WAS joking.

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Well, if you already made the pact with him, I'd say it is fair. However, if you strongly opposed to a name he picked out, I don't think he should go with it, knowing you don't like it. How about, say, he picks 5-10 names, and you decide on the one you like the best?

If they're all horrible to you though, scratch the pact and mutually decide (as the poster above me suggests.)



Fortunately, my husband doesn't have a problem with my naming our future kids (first boy and first girl name already decided upon,) but if he REALLY hated what I've chosen, then I wouldn't feel right about sticking with them.