Naming a child after someone...
Nov. 21st, 2007 06:37 pmIs there anyone in your life, past or present that you would name a child after?
I am named after my mom's best friend, and I treasure the name so much. My Name's Viviana btw lol.
I am named after my mom's best friend, and I treasure the name so much. My Name's Viviana btw lol.
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Date: 2007-11-22 12:45 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-11-22 12:46 am (UTC)Annabella - mom's middle name is Anne
Catherine - paternal grandma's middle name
Laurel - mom's name is Laura
Constance - maternal grandma's name
Jonah - grandpa and uncle are John. brother's middle name is Jon
Arthur - paternal great grandpa
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Date: 2007-11-22 12:56 am (UTC)Wow. That is an insanely long list. Even longer than I expected. I do try and change the names somehow so they're more original to that child and not an exact name, but some of them are exact because I haven't found a variation I like better.
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Date: 2007-11-22 01:15 am (UTC)However, my grandmother said that if any of us (the grandkids) were to name our kids after him, she would take it as a very big insult and a slap in the face. So of course I'm going to respect her wishes.
Finally I opted to use his middle name (Olivier) as our son's middle name. She never said anything about that, so I think it's okay with her. The little man is due in March.
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Date: 2007-11-22 05:33 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-11-22 12:06 pm (UTC)Possibly the constant reminder that the love of her life, the father of her children, the amazing grandfather to her grandchildren, is gone and she will never see him again. I don't know.
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Date: 2007-11-22 01:28 am (UTC)Moving on.
I really don't like the idea of naming someone after someone else. But if I were forced to relinquish my dearly-loved boy names and pick something more 'normal', I'd go for James. It's the name of three of my really really really good friends, and it's always held nothing but positive connotations for me - basically I've never met a James I've been disappointed with.
I know a number of people in Indonesia whose names I might steal for use on any future sprogs of mine - but I wouldn't like the constant mispronunciation of them.
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Date: 2007-11-22 01:41 am (UTC)My mom gave me her name as a middle name, and I always loved that she did that and we share the same name. (Paige.) If I have a daughter I would want to include that in her name as well.
Also, if we have more than one child I want to use the name(s): Finch or Atticus after my mom, Nicholas for my Dad's side, Jane for my grandmother, and Matthew or Mathilde after my fiance/child's father. :)
If you are close to the family member, I always thought family names were a lovely tradition. I loved sharing a family name growing up!
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Date: 2007-11-22 02:18 am (UTC)Caroline Ruth.
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Date: 2007-11-22 03:39 am (UTC)Ahem. Anyway. I've always been close to my mom and her sister, so I'd name a daughter Anna Kate after them both (my aunt's first name is a variation of Anna, but she goes by her middle name, and my mom's first name is a variation of Kate).
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Date: 2007-11-22 04:25 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-11-22 04:28 am (UTC)Honestly, that's it so far. I haven't really considered anyone else (although, I do have a great relationship with most of my family.)
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Date: 2007-11-22 04:29 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-11-22 04:46 am (UTC)I fully intend on giving my children a name for a family member (ideally one from each side, plus a name that is their own - so three names total)
Some on my list:
James (my dad and brother)
Evan (for my great grandmother Evelyn)
Daniel (boyf and his father's middle name)
Kenneth (for my late grandfather, and brother)
Maree (mum's and my middle name)
Caitlin/Kate (for my cousin and friend who will prob not have any children)
Emma/Emily (see above)
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Date: 2007-11-22 05:39 am (UTC)I'm also seriously considering using Ruth as a middle name if I ever have a daughter, because it's the middle name of my mother and grandmother.
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Date: 2007-11-22 06:19 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-11-22 09:45 am (UTC)I don't like the idea of something new being named after something dead.
And for current people in my family, I guess I just don't have anyone that inspires me enough. But I would agree to use family names on my SO's side if it mattered to him. And I most definitely would name a baby after a 'celebrity' or the likes of it :P art inspires me more than family, yeah, I've just realized that.
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Date: 2007-11-22 09:47 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2007-11-22 10:56 am (UTC)Liliana (my mother - her fn means lily & her mn is Ann)
Jane (best friend)
Julia/Juliet (my mentor)
Edward (my grandfather's mn)
Finnegan or Seamus (my mentor/lectuer)
Richard (my brother)
I also love William, after Shakespeare.
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Date: 2007-11-22 06:31 pm (UTC)I also want to use Alec/Alex as Alec is dad's middle name, and he wanted to use on me if I'd been a boy!
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Date: 2007-11-22 09:08 pm (UTC)My favourite English teacher, Merry (Merry Abigail)
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Date: 2007-11-23 02:54 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-11-23 03:07 am (UTC)Lily Alice
Elizabeth Jane
Merry Abigail
Catherine Emily
Madeleine Hermione
The list just goes on!
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Date: 2007-11-25 06:33 am (UTC)Anna after my best friend, Anna, who just had a heart transplant at age 22.
Beth after my great-grandmother, Elizabeth, who died when I was 11 months old but who I think, based on family members' descriptions of her, I think I would have had an amazing relationship with.
(Claire's just because I love the name.)