[identity profile] abandoneddream.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] babynames
My drama-ridden in-laws are always fuel for thought. Recently, my SIL went to city hall and legally changed her son's middle and last names. She did this to spite her ex-boyfriend, who she listed as her son's father on his birth certificate. They both knew that this was a completely false statement. Yet, when the couple had a messy split-up, only a month later, SIL's ex boyfriend was awarded temporary custody of the child.

The baby, who is only a couple months old, will never know the difference. But, it made me wonder, would you ever legally change your child's name? What circumstances would have to surround such a decision?

Re: I have...

Date: 2006-10-24 02:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] queen-mab.livejournal.com
Lol, why would they do that?

Jack Edward is a really nice name. :)

Re: I have...

Date: 2006-10-24 12:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ginky.livejournal.com
Because they're dickwads...I went back to L&D after I had him because I hemmoraged and they could watch me 1 on 1. So I broke their cycle of what to do after birth. No one ever brought me the papers to name him, I brought it up, they said "sure we did" and I thought "Uh okay..."

So they named him Infant, I'm Amy Unknown (maiden name) and Jack's father is DH's long dead grandfather who I never knew. We were able to fix his name and my name, but DH's name is still wrong on the birth certificate and I don't care another $20 worth to fix it.

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Re: I have...

Date: 2006-10-24 01:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] krosp.livejournal.com
Do you actually have to pay for their mistake? How frustrating. But I guess it's probably easier to fix now than in the future if he really needs it to be accurate :-\

Re: I have...

Date: 2006-10-24 05:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ginky.livejournal.com
Yes, I did. It was a nightmare! The actual changing of it wasn't too bad, but the discovery and the time it took to deal with it was hellacious. It took us about 6 hours to get a copy of that birth certificate so we could go about fixing it.

Re: I have...

Date: 2006-10-28 07:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] queen-mab.livejournal.com
Oh, wow. Why would they lie about bringing the papers to you? Lol, that's kind of stupid. =\

Re: I have...

Date: 2006-10-29 05:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ginky.livejournal.com
I don't think they actually lied, I just think the NICU assumed that they'd done that. And they didn't, and they COULD have, because he was still in the hospital when they filed them.

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