[identity profile] abandoneddream.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] babynames
My drama-ridden in-laws are always fuel for thought. Recently, my SIL went to city hall and legally changed her son's middle and last names. She did this to spite her ex-boyfriend, who she listed as her son's father on his birth certificate. They both knew that this was a completely false statement. Yet, when the couple had a messy split-up, only a month later, SIL's ex boyfriend was awarded temporary custody of the child.

The baby, who is only a couple months old, will never know the difference. But, it made me wonder, would you ever legally change your child's name? What circumstances would have to surround such a decision?

Date: 2006-10-23 09:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] space-monkey340.livejournal.com
Only if Michael died and my new husband was adopting Erik would I change is name.

Date: 2006-10-23 11:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] washironfucketc.livejournal.com
In that case I would let him keep the name as almost an honor to his father.

Date: 2006-10-23 11:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] angelwifey.livejournal.com
agreed. If the father died, the child can keep the name, but if the father left him, id change it.

Date: 2006-10-24 12:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] space-monkey340.livejournal.com
If he had a problem with it I wouldn't let New Hubby adopt him or make him change his name.

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