I don't see a point in stopping them, as they are more or less on 'topic'. So I guess I will have to supress the urge to be mean and try to ignore them ;) Hopefully it'll become boring and they will go elewhere with that.
I also feel like this community is not baby names, but rather "i'm changing my name, what should i change it to" or "hey, help me name my new RPG/fanfic mary sue!"
Well that's mostly because it's not supposed to be just about BABY names exactly, I put in the userinfo anyone who just likes to discuss names is welcome. I'm talking about this new 'look at me! who do I look like' thing. Which is technically still on topic, unfortunately. I'm hoping they will get bored and actually go find a rating community for that.
No no, I don't want people to think they have to be pregnant or have babies to be able to post here. It says clearly in the userinfo that it's a place to dicuss names in general, not just for babies. I'm just expressing an annoyance about the teeny-bopper 'look at me name me!' thing. Like someone below said, maybe I'm just old and bitter :P Please don't stop posting about your general love for names, we all share it ;)
Yes, yes, I agree with a_green_faerie that this is about discussing names in general, not just if you're having a baby!
I don't really have a problem with the alphabet meme or things like that, just the rating-community-ish picture posting. Which, like I said, I'll gladly ignore if it's CUT so I don't have to look at some stranger's face on my friends page. I'm sure people will get bored of it soon.
If it's CUT, I have not problem ignoring it. But when some unknown teenage girl's face shows up on your friends' page in all its glory TWICE in as many days, well, you can't ignore that.
Sigh. Maybe I'm just old and bitter ;)
Also!! Since when is it a good idea to post a picture of yourself WITH your full name for all the internet to see? Geez.
I agree, but I don't think this should community should be restricted to just BABY names, as the comments suggested. I'm only 19 but obsessed with names and I like to discuss them generally. I just think all the "what name do I look?!!1" posts are a wee bit annoying. If only they were cut properly...
*feels very guilty* Sorry about that, girls. I'll make a note to stay on topic from now on. But since I'm new to the Livejournal experience, how do I make a cut?
No, I think whats going on is fine. If people want to post a couple pictures in a cut and have people suggest some names, why not? soooooooooooooo yeah. thats my op.
Well, I'm guessing this has something to do with my last post as the feather that broke the camel's back persay. Just to defend myself I wasn't asking for a "you're so pretty" remark, I was genuinly curious as to what names people thought suited me. I could've posted all about my personality, but it seemed much easier as to post a picture... I seriously thought that it was just fun and games and not a big deal in the least.
It's kind of discriminatory to assume that all I (and other members) were looking for were compliments, you know what they say of assumuntions... "it makes an ASS of U and ME". hehe. I understand your concern though, I deleted my former post. <3
i'll admit they were a little strange and caught me off-guard, but i actually thought it was kind of a fun change, heh. although the one girl about changing her name was starting to get a little out of hand.
I agree that lists and photos should be cut.. But I quite like the fact that people are asking what names suit them, I think it's really interesting to see what kind of names people associate with certain looks. I was thinking of doing it myself but I'm a bit embaressed to do so now. I must admit I found it annoying when people were posting and complimenting people on their appearance. I made a point not to. I like the fact that this community is not strictly a baby names community as I am not pregnant and won't be for a very long time (if ever). I think I would alos find it a bit depressing if every post was by someone wanting help with the naming of a baby - because I want one!!
Yes, a bit. When I annouced what my brothers name was going be, people said stuff like 'yuck', that's kinda mean because it's for certain, his name would be that. It wasn't like an opinion question, and we were going to change it. And they could of just said something like 'Oh i don't really like it but that's okay if your family likes it' or something like that
..I fail to see how that related to people posting pics of themselves wondering 'what kind of name' they looked like. Besides, it's an opinion based community, don't post if you're not ready for critisism, good and bad. 'yuck' is not really that offensive. If they had said something along the lines of.."OMG, your parents are IDIOTS for doing that!", then I'd agree people were being 'mean.'
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Date: 2006-05-05 04:42 am (UTC)"Lookit me and say I'm pretty then put a name"
eh.
Those posts are annoying me as much as the "Name my SIMS/MMORPG" posts. It's a baby names community yanno.
That's my hormonal rant.
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Date: 2006-05-05 04:45 am (UTC)I don't see a point in stopping them, as they are more or less on 'topic'. So I guess I will have to supress the urge to be mean and try to ignore them ;) Hopefully it'll become boring and they will go elewhere with that.
Hopefully.
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Date: 2006-05-05 04:48 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 05:05 am (UTC)I also feel like this community is not baby names, but rather "i'm changing my name, what should i change it to" or "hey, help me name my new RPG/fanfic mary sue!"
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Date: 2006-05-05 05:08 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 06:58 am (UTC)I kind of like reading everyone's alphabet names. I see some really really interesting ones that way.
I'm not anywhere near pregnant, so I guess I will try to keep my questions to myself. They won't have anything to do with babies. Just names.
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Date: 2006-05-05 07:05 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 07:13 am (UTC)I don't really have a problem with the alphabet meme or things like that, just the rating-community-ish picture posting.
Which, like I said, I'll gladly ignore if it's CUT so I don't have to look at some stranger's face on my friends page. I'm sure people will get bored of it soon.
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Date: 2006-05-05 05:22 am (UTC)If it's CUT, I have not problem ignoring it. But when some unknown teenage girl's face shows up on your friends' page in all its glory TWICE in as many days, well, you can't ignore that.
Sigh. Maybe I'm just old and bitter ;)
Also!! Since when is it a good idea to post a picture of yourself WITH your full name for all the internet to see? Geez.
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Date: 2006-05-05 09:06 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 05:48 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 11:17 am (UTC)[/end off topic]
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Date: 2006-05-05 06:28 am (UTC)Sorry about that, girls. I'll make a note to stay on topic from now on. But since I'm new to the Livejournal experience, how do I make a cut?
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Date: 2006-05-05 06:33 am (UTC)or to make a cut with text:
<*lj-cut= "REPLACE WITH CHOICE TEXT"*> and <*/lj-cut*>
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Date: 2006-05-05 07:03 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 06:28 am (UTC)If people want to post a couple pictures in a cut and have people suggest some names, why not?
soooooooooooooo yeah. thats my op.
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Date: 2006-05-05 08:17 am (UTC)I'd seen it being done before so I thought it was alright.
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Date: 2006-05-05 02:22 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 09:03 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 03:15 pm (UTC)It's kind of discriminatory to assume that all I (and other members) were looking for were compliments, you know what they say of assumuntions... "it makes an ASS of U and ME". hehe. I understand your concern though, I deleted my former post. <3
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Date: 2006-05-05 10:37 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 11:18 am (UTC)I was, however, thinking a bit of the same thing.
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Date: 2006-05-05 11:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 12:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-05 02:21 pm (UTC)But I quite like the fact that people are asking what names suit them, I think it's really interesting to see what kind of names people associate with certain looks. I was thinking of doing it myself but I'm a bit embaressed to do so now. I must admit I found it annoying when people were posting and complimenting people on their appearance. I made a point not to.
I like the fact that this community is not strictly a baby names community as I am not pregnant and won't be for a very long time (if ever). I think I would alos find it a bit depressing if every post was by someone wanting help with the naming of a baby - because I want one!!
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Date: 2006-05-27 06:49 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-05-28 12:33 am (UTC)