[identity profile] thephoeb.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] babynames
I was watching "True Life: I'm pregnant" yesterday. The 19 year-old mom-to-be said, "We are naming him Chance, because what are the chances that I would get pregnant?!"

Why not just name your son "Oops"?

Date: 2008-01-18 04:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] politicking.livejournal.com
hahah i thought that, too!

i have a friend who gave her daughter a middle name that means "Miracle"-- because she was apparently a miracle. yes, it's a miracle that she didn't conceive sooner! it's not like she had a medical condition or anything, so i don't see how it was such a "miracle" to conceive a child when you're NOT on birth control, having unprotected sex lol.

Date: 2008-01-18 04:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] politicking.livejournal.com
oh & the child was completely 'normal' & healthy, so no "miracle" as to how she survived or anything.

so, i am often a little confused by that lol.

Date: 2008-01-18 07:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hoboheart.livejournal.com
My sister is named miracle "Milagros" , its a common name among spanish people. I like the name Chance too. But yea, its pretty bad if you come up for a reason like that to be naming ur child.

Date: 2008-01-18 08:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spikes-sexkitty.livejournal.com
actually having a 'normal' & 'healthy' baby *IS* a miracle. you'd be astounded at the numbe rof infants/toddlers/children who are born with deformities, or disorders all because of one little thing that happened during the pregnancy.

the mom got a slight cough so she tooka small dosage of over the counter meds, now the baby is born blind.

hell, even if the mother did everything right, if cells don't split just perfectly at just the right time, or one piece of the chromosome doesn't match up just so with another, your child can be born with anything from a cleft lip, to clubbed limbs, to a malformed skull, water on the brain, etc.

so i don't see the problem with a mother being happy with the miracle of life and that her child came out with all 10 fingers, all 10 toes, 2 eyes, 2 ears, 1 nose, a mouth and everything is working order. if they want to name their child Miracle or Milagro/s - i see no problem.

now, as for that "chance" excuse that's dumb. they couldn't come up with something better? like, "we're happy to have this chance to be a family"? or SOMEthing else... yeesh.

Date: 2008-01-18 11:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] politicking.livejournal.com
very true, but my friend's whole thing was that it was a miracle she got pregnant... which, she's having sex, at a time when she's in the 'fertile' time frame for women, not much of a miracle there.

i mean, just say, "i really like the name Miracle" or variants thereof, not "what a miracle, i wasn't on birth control and after having unprotected sex i got pregnant!"

Date: 2008-01-18 05:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amspeck-myworld.livejournal.com
Miracle is a bit odd, in my opinion, as a name choice - at least it has a sweet conotation - it gives the impression of being wanted, even if it wasn't quite the long and dangerous road to get there than some have (and there is always the point of view that every baby/child/person is a miracle). I, and particularly my husband, like Mirabelle due to its' similar sound and meaning (which is: wonderful).

Chance, given for that reason, seems close to unkind - almost like 'eh, I tried to limited my chances, but still ended up with you...'. The story behind the name leaves a lot to be desired...

Date: 2008-01-18 11:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] politicking.livejournal.com
"i tried to limit my chances" LOL so true.

Date: 2008-01-18 04:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sandtree.livejournal.com
My parents should have named me 'Drunken Accident'. I think it has a ring to it.

Date: 2008-01-18 05:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quite-rosie.livejournal.com
poetic, really.

Date: 2008-01-18 08:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thejoysofjess.livejournal.com
lol, that makes my name "Oh Shit, let's get married."

Date: 2008-01-18 10:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bobinwales.livejournal.com
Haha, mine too! :D

Date: 2008-01-18 05:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] morphinae.livejournal.com
Chances are pretty good if you're boinking someone and are of child bearing age :P

Date: 2008-01-18 06:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] traezer.livejournal.com
Well, my parents should have named me "Pulling Out Doesnt Work" or Podw for short. ;)

Date: 2008-01-18 06:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tryyingtoevolve.livejournal.com
Hahahahahahahaha!

Date: 2008-01-18 06:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tryyingtoevolve.livejournal.com
Hahahahaha, oh man. That's awful.

Date: 2008-01-18 06:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zorianna.livejournal.com
Haha I thought that when I saw the show too. I actually know that girl and have met her a couple times (she's friends with my best friend since 6th grade, the girl out with them on Bourbon). So I knew she had named her son Chance well before the show, but it wasn't until I saw it that I knew why. I totally would have kept that info to myself and not mentioned it on national tv. LoL

Date: 2008-01-18 07:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tooterbabe19.livejournal.com
hahahahah.
poor kid.

Date: 2008-01-18 07:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 0o-faerie.livejournal.com
Lol. Oh well, at least it's better than the kid I saw on MTV today: Sinceire. WTF!

Date: 2008-01-18 11:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] so-there.livejournal.com
she should name him Sex. BECAUSE THAT'S PROBABLY HOW SHE GOT PREGNANT.

Date: 2008-01-18 11:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] politicking.livejournal.com
haha. yeah, right. no babies are being named Immaculate Conception.

Date: 2008-01-19 02:20 am (UTC)

Date: 2008-01-19 07:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mountain-nest.livejournal.com
My mom says that my brother's REAL middle name is Diaphragm. :D

Date: 2008-01-21 05:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] waitingonsunday.livejournal.com
Maybe her next child can be called Shotgun Wedding!
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