[identity profile] prlsb4swiine.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] babynames
thought I'd post my family

My Brother: Muhammad Umair Alam [aah-luhm]
My Sister-in-law: Fatima Khalid

My Sister: Mahwish [meh-Vish] Alam [aah-luhm]
My brother-in-law: Mateen Fazal [fuz-l]

Me: Benish [bee-nish] Alam [aah-luhm]

Personally I hate mine and my sister's names rhyming, but i never call her by her name anyways so it doesnt affect me. I sincerely hope that when my sister and her husband have kids they will not all name them starting with 'm'.

I got made fun of for my name pretty much my whole life. In grade school it was 'beany, or beany baby' and once even 'mercedes benz'. then in highschool it was 'penis'

Personally I love my name, always have and always will; it has a wonderful meaning. In arabic it means Intelligent and in Farsi it means someone who can see past anything fake and see the truth.
I ignore the making-fun. I actually pitied kids who obviously couldnt see that my name was more unique than 'tim' or 'stacy' [no offense to any tims or stacys on here]


WDYT?

Date: 2008-01-07 07:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] areyoustrange.livejournal.com
Those dang Tims and Stacys. I like your name and your sister's name heaps, actually. And I've always liked Fatima.

Date: 2008-01-07 08:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tokossel.livejournal.com
i like your name and the meaning is great! and i think 'beanie' is a cute nickname...i call my friend sabina that sometimes, hehe. penis is not so cool!

Date: 2008-01-07 11:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 0o-faerie.livejournal.com
It sucks how original names can lead to teasing just because they are 'unusual' =\.

I like your sister's name! And yours has a great meaning. Or two great meanings, actually ;)

Date: 2008-01-07 03:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] waitingonsunday.livejournal.com
I agree with an above poster, I think Beany's a cute nickname, too. One of my friends calls me Beanie sometimes and I like it. But! I can see how anything said derisively wouldn't be considered exactly "cute."

Date: 2008-01-07 04:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xravenessx.livejournal.com
I think they are very lovely names. They just seem unusual because they are so different. But that is what makes them special. I think that as long as you love your name then that is all that matters. Especially since it has such a special meaning for your family and yourself.

Date: 2008-01-07 11:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] the-good-ship.livejournal.com
I actually heard about someone called Benish just the other day, when I've never heard it before. Must be one of those random cluster things.

Anyway, it's nice.

Date: 2008-01-09 02:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] littlebitofme.livejournal.com
I love your name :)

I have a friend who's family name is Alam

Hers is Rubeena Fatima
Mother: Nasreen
Sister: Farah
Sister: Sana
Father: Rafat

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