And this is why I hesitate with Noémie. We presently live in a city that's predominantly English and I'm afraid they would hear "Naomi" all the time. I was actually leaning towards Naomi at first but lately I really love Noémie.:)
Hmm good point. I'm from the US so my hypothetical child would have to switch between both cultures. Could be a problematic name, but darn it's pretty.
As an American who lives and works in France, I'm always really intrigued when people insist that using French names/words/pronunciations is pretentious. Would it be the same if I used a Swedish name, or a German name?
It's pretentious because of the accents and pronunciation. Americans pronounce Beatrice a certain way, if you give your child the French version, she's going to be constantly correcting people. However, if you live in a French speaking country, have at it.
As an American, who only took high school French, I'd be worried about the pronunciation of Beatrice. Perhaps this won't be an issue with the accent and since you are in a bilingual location, but I'd be worried about it being Bee-ah-trice instead of Bay-ah-trice.
Noemie I got "correct", didn't think of Naomi at all actually.
"No friends" in French would be "Pas d'amis." I know what you mean though, it could sound like "no"-"amie" but it's a fairly common name (although not so much in the last 5 years which is why I'm considering it) and I've never ever heard any such correlation.
My daughter has an accent on her name, a lot of French names do, and it's never been an issue. I would think most people, Canadians or not, know what the "é" sounds like. I've seen a lot of Renée and Chloé, etc, in English speaking communities.
It's probably not a valid concern for you being in Canada, but I don't have an easy way to type é. I'd type Beatrice instead of Béatrice (I had to copy and paste the e from your comment to get it) and would be more inclined to mispronounce it since Beatrice is the more common (at least here) pronunciation and spelling.
One of my daughters has Renée for a middle name and we live in Ontario. The accent is real common here, I could not imagine using a French name without it. Everyone seems to get the pronunciation of the accents considering we have to take French until grade 9.
I don't have a French keyboard (they confuse me), so I do alt followed by 130 to do "é". You can do all the accents that way. I usually don't even type the é if I'm in a rush. I guess it's just known in French Canada that Beatrice and Noemie come with the sound é. Like my name is Emilie (Ay-mee-lee) and I don't even have an accent on my name but people would know how to pronounce it. But really the difference in pronunciation are so much more than just the accent, our "r" as I'm sure you know sound completely different...I don't expect people that don't speak French to pronounce the name perfectly.
English is my first language, although I did live in Montreal for quite a while with an ex, so I recognize the actual pronunciation of Noemie. From an American English POV, I'd say it would probably be assumed that the Noe was a "No" (sort of like 'toe') instead of a No-ee, so it would probably be pronounced 'Nomi'.
Hah. I love labels. Calling me "ethnocentric" makes it seem like SERIOUS BUSINESS.
Call it what you'd like, it's still pretentious to saddle your child with a name that is usually pronounced one way and expect everybody to pronounce it another.
I didn't label you, I informed you that you were acting in an ethnocentric manner. If I had called you an ethnocentrist, then I would have been labeling you.
My name is in my lj name. My parents weren't called 'pretentious' because it's my heritage. It's where my family comes from. OP has said they are French-Canadian. The names they want for their kids are French. Where is the pretention?
Similarly, I don't find it pretentious to expect people to pronounce your name the way you tell them it is pronounced. A simple correction isn't pretentious, it's life. I correct people on my name constantly. Even people with common names sometimes have to correct people. I just dont see your point.
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Date: 2011-08-09 10:19 pm (UTC)i like béatrice though, and i think it would be much less problematic for english speakers.
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Date: 2011-08-09 10:48 pm (UTC)Of the two... I guess I prefer Noémie. I really, really dislike Béatrice (English or French).
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Date: 2011-08-10 03:14 am (UTC)I just got back from doing the 5 week Explore program in Montreal, and was just happy to be surrounded by gorgeous French names all the time.
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Date: 2011-08-10 03:50 pm (UTC)Noemie I got "correct", didn't think of Naomi at all actually.
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Date: 2011-08-11 12:12 pm (UTC)Call it what you'd like, it's still pretentious to saddle your child with a name that is usually pronounced one way and expect everybody to pronounce it another.
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Date: 2011-08-11 11:42 pm (UTC)My name is in my lj name. My parents weren't called 'pretentious' because it's my heritage. It's where my family comes from. OP has said they are French-Canadian. The names they want for their kids are French. Where is the pretention?
Similarly, I don't find it pretentious to expect people to pronounce your name the way you tell them it is pronounced. A simple correction isn't pretentious, it's life. I correct people on my name constantly. Even people with common names sometimes have to correct people. I just dont see your point.
Eta: corrected typo.
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