EXACTLY! We've all told him this.
It's a set in stone deal about the name if we have a son, no ifs, ands or butts about it! I kinda set it aside before when we were talking about names to see what else we could come up with but I kept telling him how important it was to me. I know it's not so much because he's deceased but because it's after a guy...he has no problem if we have a girl for her to have my best gf's middle name.